3 Bears 2 Caves ft. Tom Segura | Ep 34 | Bad Friends

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About this episode Bobby Lee and Andrew Schulman discuss the complexities of microaggressions, with Lee sharing personal anecdote… AI summary

Bobby Lee and Andrew Schulman discuss the complexities of microaggressions, with Lee sharing personal anecdotes about navigating racial stereotypes and his recent discovery of the term's definition. The conversation also covers Lee's chaotic living situation with his partner's niece, his family's history with hauntings, and the broader trend of comedians moving out of Los Angeles.

Key takeaways 4
  • Bobby Lee learned the definition of 'microaggression' from a high school YouTube video, realizing his comedy style often relies on these brief, commonplace indignities.
  • Lee defines microaggression as 'brief and commonplace daily verbal or behavioral indignities... that communicate hostile, derogatory, or negative attitudes towards stigmatized or culturally marginalized groups.'
  • The podcast highlights a significant migration of comedians from Los Angeles to cities like Austin and Denver, driven by lower taxes and lifestyle changes.
  • Lee's living situation involves significant friction with his partner Kurosawa's niece, Kila, who lives with them and criticizes his lack of participation in family activities and his erratic schedule.
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  • “Microaggression is a term used for brief and commonplace daily verbal or behavioral indignities whether intentional or unintentional that communicate hostile, derogatory or negative attitudes towards stigmatized or culturally marginalized groups.”
    ▶ 16:49 Bobby Lee reading the formal definition of microaggression after learning about it from a high school video.
  • “I think it's time to quit podcasting... you're done with this. I don't think your names are ranked as high as Tom Hardy and Tom Cruise.”
    ▶ 2:22 Andrew Schulman jokingly telling Bobby Lee that his busy movie schedule means he should stop doing the podcast.
  • “I would coddle that thing for days on end. I would mold and create life. I would shape its mind to be unpenetrable.”
    ▶ 52:01 Bobby Lee describing how he would parent if he adopted a child, contrasting with his current chaotic home life.
  • “I just want to let you know man, you don't act Mexican to me. That right there is a microaggression.”
    ▶ 17:45 Bobby Lee giving an example of a microaggression by telling a friend they don't act Mexican enough.

Chapters & Sections (58)

0:00 Comedians Discuss Movie Projects and Podcasting chapter 4
0:00 Comedians Complain About Lack of Basic Needs
1:37 Celebrity Schedules and Movie Projects
2:48 Discussion about Trump and Faith
4:07 Racial Stereotypes and Microaggressions in Conversation
6:05 Discussion about Vision and Conspiracy Theories chapter 3
6:05 Driving at Night with Vision Impairment
8:04 Helicopter Rescue Attempt with Medical Emergency
9:26 Embarrassing Story of a Podcast Interview
11:18 Racist Memes and Microaggressions chapter 2
11:18 Racist Memes and Microaggressions
13:23 Argumentative Conversation About Body Type
15:52 Defining Microaggression and Its Impact chapter 3
15:52 Defining Microaggression and Its Impact
18:15 Microaggressions and Cultural Sensitivity Discussion
19:47 Racial Stereotypes and Cultural Sensitivity
21:01 Celebrity Endorses Meundies Underwear Brand chapter 2
21:01 Celebrity Endorses Meundies Underwear Brand
22:23 Meundies and Upstart Product Review
25:50 Celebrity Culture and Filipino Awareness Month chapter 3
25:50 Celebrity Gossip and Personal Conversations
28:25 Parental Struggles with Teenage Child
30:58 Relationship Expectations and Communication Issues
32:11 Annoyance with Overly Protective Partner chapter 3
32:11 Argument with Partner Over Daily Habits
34:23 Roommate's Bad Habits and Personal Growth
35:53 Defiance and Rebellion in Everyday Life
38:12 Excessive Spending on Juice and Unhygienic Behavior chapter 3
38:12 Excessive Spending on Juice and Unusual Behavior
40:17 Unconventional Sleep Schedule and Ant Drawer
41:41 Conversation about Blue Chew and Confidence
43:18 Discussing Sponsorship and Magnum PI chapter 3
43:18 Discounted Pharmacy Alternative Offered
44:44 Discussion about Moving and Family
46:08 Considering Moving Out of LA
47:24 Pros and Cons of High State Income Tax chapter 2
47:24 Pros and Cons of High State Income Tax
49:36 Comedian Discusses Korean Food and LA Changes
52:01 Childhood Trauma and Paranormal Beliefs chapter 2
52:01 Childhood Trauma and Paranormal Beliefs
54:23 Possession Experiences in Childhood Home
57:05 Uncle's Abrupt Reaction to Father's Death chapter 3
57:05 Family Member's Unconventional Reaction to Death
59:15 Family's Inappropriate Funeral Photo Shoot
1:00:49 Racial Stereotypes and Music Industry Discussion
1:02:02 Comedian's Emotional Vulnerability and Trauma chapter 3
1:02:02 Comedian's Traumatic Upbringing and Mental Health
1:03:42 Emotional Connection with Women
1:05:20 Discussion about Family Participation and Responsibilities
1:07:34 Emotional Family Discussion and Betrayal chapter 3
1:07:34 Emotional Family Discussion and Apology
1:09:08 Paranormal Activity in a Small American Town
1:11:03 Appreciation for Tommy's Podcast and Help
1:13:49 Celebrity Comedians Discuss Netflix and Showtime Projects chapter 4
1:13:49 Discussion about Netflix show The Cabin
1:15:29 Celebrity Comedian Discusses Career and Showtime
1:17:14 Friend Discusses Movie and Audition Experiences
1:18:31 Emotional Distress and Grief Over Father's Death

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