About this episodeTavy Baby discusses her upcoming Baddies reunion conflict with Lex, her past as an exotic dancer, and her jour…AI summary
Tavy Baby discusses her upcoming Baddies reunion conflict with Lex, her past as an exotic dancer, and her journey as a mother to an autistic son. She shares detailed stories about her career as a chef, including inventing menu items and handling high-end private events, while also revealing personal details about her sexuality, relationships, and coping mechanisms for grief.
Key takeaways 6
Tavy Baby clarifies that her conflict with Lex was defensive; she avoided fighting on her actual birthday to prevent reopening wounds but engaged in a controlled TV fight where 'the first three punches count' to avoid looking beaten.
She distinguishes between strip clubs and cabarets, noting that cabaret work was less physically demanding ('never bust a sweat') but still lucrative, with one night earning $13k from a single client who arrived by helicopter.
Tavy prioritizes her son's development over her career, noting he went from non-verbal to speaking sentences in one year, which she views as a divine gift following the tragic loss of her brother six months after his birth.
She reveals she is bisexual, having had a girlfriend at 16, and prefers women ('vagina') due to the challenge and dominance dynamic, though she appreciates both genders.
Her culinary career includes working at Serlette & Tob, helping roll out a new menu at Cheesecake Factory, and teaching cooking classes, with a specific anecdote about creating a $3,300 vegan private event menu (22 guests at $150/person).
She addresses the '49er scammer' trend in her song 'Bag a [__]', expressing empathy for victims who were vulnerable and trying to get their lives together when scammed.
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“I don't feel the pain at that moment. It's like the next day when I wake up or roll over, I'm like, 'Ouch. Ouch.' Like, I'm in so much pain right now. It's my adrenaline.”
▶ 5:48Describing the physical toll of the fight with Lex on Baddies.
“My child is my pride and my joy. I wouldn't change him for the world... If he's going to be autistic, that's him. That's my child and I love him.”
▶ 17:39Discussing her son's autism and rejecting the idea that it is a curse.
“I got 13,000 on like a Tuesday. The club was not going up on that Tuesday... He came in a helicopter... I knew he had all the money because he showed me it was nothing but hundreds... It felt like a Bible.”
▶ 45:07Recalling her highest earning night as an exotic dancer in a cabaret.
“You got to put it in the escrow. Like, I'm just using words. Yo, words words. Big words. Big words. That's all I'm using. Like just just throwing it glossary.”
▶ 55:10Explaining her strategy in her song 'Bag a [__]' for attracting wealthy partners by using financial jargon.
“Even if my room's not clean, make my bed better cuz the bed made up just make the room look a little neater... You can't think in chaos.”
▶ 1:11:52Sharing a life habit taught by her mother that helps her maintain mental clarity.
Chapters & Sections (36)▼
0:00Baddies Reunion Prep and Lex Conflictchapter3
1:36Baddies Reunion Event Discussion
2:53Karate Practice and Reunion Anxiety
3:56Birthday Gift and Fight Aftermath
7:09Birth Experience and Baddies Triviachapter1
9:32Laughing Over Unwashed Weed Wraps
11:05Exotic Dancing Career and Motherhood Journeychapter3
12:59Exotic Dancing Career and Motherhood Journey
14:26Raising an Autistic Son and Family Priorities
18:25Mental Health and Natural Beauty Secrets
19:23Childbirth Experience and Griefchapter1
22:15Treadmill Running and Mental Clarity
23:53Favorite Baddies Cast Members and Tommy Leechapter2
25:17Favorite Cast Members and Diamond's Intelligence
27:05Tavii Babii and Tommy Lee Conflict
32:24Halara Vape Review and Cooking Chatchapter2
33:57Halara Greek Phrase Meaning
35:04Pina Colada Vape and Ice Cream Chat
36:30Culinary School Journey and French Cuisine Passionchapter1
38:05Early Culinary Influences and French Cuisine
40:30Chef Career and Private Event Cookingchapter1
42:27Vegan Private Event Menu Planning
44:37Cabaret Earnings and Strip Club Storieschapter2
46:54Champagne Bottle Gifting and Strip Club Stories
48:42Strip Club Money and Dance Songs
50:43Lavender preference and song Bag discussionchapter1
53:06Celebrating song success and bagging tips
54:46Dating Scams and Marriage Lessonschapter2
56:51Emotional Impact of Dating Scams
57:58Financial Exploitation and Marriage Realities
59:37Marriage Timelines and Sexual Preferenceschapter1
1:01:22Sexual Preferences and Baddies Casting
1:04:01Dating Preferences and Baddies Friendshipchapter3
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