Dr. Becky Kennedy: Wire Your Children for Resilience

Dr. Mayim Bialik
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Chapters & Sections (117)

0:02 Parenting and Childhood Identity chapter 3
0:02 The Impact of Parental Attention on Child Development
1:06 Ritual Probiotics and Gut Health
2:39 Dr. Becky Kennedy's Expertise in Parenting and Childhood Psychology
3:41 Introduction to Dr. Becky Kennedy and her work chapter 3
3:41 Dr. Becky Kennedy's approach to parenting
4:12 Dr. Becky Kennedy's book and popularity
5:14 Dr. Becky Kennedy's background and training
7:20 The Speaker's Background and Career Choices chapter 5
7:20 Deciding to Have a Child and the Influence of Personal Experience
7:50 The Speaker's Career Path and Interest in Working with Parents
8:21 Training and the Influence of Evidence-Based Parenting
8:54 A Turning Point in the Speaker's Practice and Approach to Parenting
9:25 Emotional Reflections on the Impact of Parenting Choices
10:28 Reflecting on Personal Paradigm Shift chapter 3
10:28 Realizing the Importance of Trusting Body Data
11:00 Feeling Uncomfortable with Current Parenting Methods
11:32 Understanding the Need for Rewiring and Emotion Regulation
12:33 Rethinking Parenting Approaches chapter
13:04 Practical Approach to Parenting chapter 1
13:04 The Importance of Clarity in Parenting Approaches
16:11 Parenting During Uncertainty chapter 3
16:11 Preparing Children for Resilience During Uncertainty
17:13 Helix Sleep and Personalized Mattresses
17:44 Importance of Online Therapy for Mental Health
19:18 Parenting Conversations and Expectations chapter 4
19:18 Involving Partners in Parenting Conversations
19:51 Parental Centeredness and Consistency
20:23 Communicating with Children's Needs
21:25 Rethinking Parenting Strategies and Consistency
22:26 Parenting and Emotional Empowerment chapter 5
22:26 Feeling Overwhelmed and Disempowered in Parenting
22:58 Frustration with Pediatrician's Advice and Empowerment
23:28 The Problem with Minimizing Children's Emotions
24:00 Confusion and Miscommunication when Telling Children They're Fine
25:01 Cultural and Parenting Influences on Emotional Suppression
25:31 Parenting and Emotional Regulation chapter 3
25:31 Emotional Circuits and Parental Influence
26:02 Managing Feelings in Children
27:03 Building Skills for Emotional Regulation
28:05 Understanding Children's Feelings and Needs chapter 5
28:05 Managing Feelings and Expectations
28:36 Reflective Listening and Validation
29:37 Emotional Safety and Empathy
30:08 Coping Skills and Validation
30:39 Personal Reflections and Shout-out
31:10 Parenting Challenges and Emotional Support chapter 3
31:10 Dealing with Parental Absence and Emotional Pain
32:13 Honest Communication with Children about Difficult Emotions
33:19 Product Recommendations and Sponsorship
34:21 Emotional Intelligence and Hard Feelings chapter 1
34:21 Finding the Right Doctor with ZocDoc
34:53 Introduction to ZocDoc and Personal Experience chapter
37:58 Parental Guilt, Emotional Honesty, and Intergenerational Patterns chapter 5
37:58 The Consequences of Unprocessed Emotions in Parenting
38:29 The Importance of Emotional Honesty and Vulnerability in Parenting
38:59 The Impact of Unprocessed Emotions on Intergenerational Patterns
39:29 The Role of Unprocessed Emotions in Parent-Child Communication
40:00 The Importance of Emotional Awareness and Intergenerational Change
41:03 A Woman's Struggle with Identity and Family Expectations chapter 4
41:03 Challenges of Defying Family Expectations and Preserving Identity
41:34 Regrets and Lessons Learned from Parenting Approach
42:05 The Importance of Noticing and Validating Children's Emotions
43:38 Fixing vs. Noticing in Parenting and the Power of Validation
44:09 Feeling Seen and Flexibility in Relationships chapter 3
44:09 The Importance of Feeling Seen in Interpersonal Conflicts
44:39 A Personal Anecdote about Flexibility and Feeling Seen
45:10 Parenting Moment: Understanding and Validating a Child's Experience
46:43 Parenting Strategies and Reflections chapter 3
46:43 Avoiding Power Struggles and Feeling Seen
47:44 Reevaluating Parental Expectations
48:49 Understanding Children's Psychology and Needs
49:50 Manipulation and Escalation of Emotions chapter 4
49:50 Feeling Attention and Escalation of Emotions
50:21 Parenting Style and Consequences
50:55 Reasonable Consequences and Technology
52:28 Discipline and Rule-Changing
53:00 Parenting Strategies and Consequences chapter 4
53:00 Setting Boundaries and Avoiding Consequences
53:31 Mindset for Effective Parenting
54:02 The Problem with the Word 'Consequence'
55:05 Embodying Authority and Setting Boundaries
55:36 Parenting Strategies and Emotional Intelligence chapter 4
55:36 Empathizing with Children's Emotions and Needs
56:07 Setting Boundaries and Identifying as a Good or Bad Kid
57:09 Parental Inability to Embody Authority and the Impact on Children
57:40 Reframing Parenting Strategies and Focusing on Child-Centered Approach
58:11 Embracing Authority and Managing Feelings chapter 5
58:11 Confidence and Sturdy Parenting
58:42 Embodying Authority for Personal Benefit
59:12 Avoiding Consequences by Managing Feelings
1:00:16 The Problem with Linear Consequences
1:00:46 Managing Feelings and Behaviors
1:01:17 Communication and Emotional Regulation chapter 3
1:01:17 Vulnerability and Emotional Expression
1:02:18 Parenting Strategies for Managing Conflict
1:03:50 Creating Space for Emotional Regulation
1:04:22 Parenting Challenges and Self-Reflection chapter 2
1:04:22 Acknowledging Parental Limitations and Seeking Help
1:05:57 The Importance of Emotional Validation in Parenting
1:06:59 Embracing Uncertainty and Seeking Guidance chapter 4
1:06:59 The Power of Naming Uncertainty
1:07:29 Parenting Through the Unknown
1:08:00 Seeking Guidance and Support
1:08:31 Personal Experiences with Therapy and Workshops
1:09:35 The Importance of Action in Therapy chapter 3
1:09:35 Rewiring and Reparenting Strategies
1:10:06 Internal Family Systems and Personal Progress
1:11:39 Parental Influence and Self-Discovery
1:12:11 The Power of Good Inside and Its Impact chapter 3
1:12:11 The Platform and Book's Influence
1:13:15 Global Community and Expert Resources
1:14:49 Accessibility of Knowledge and Empowerment
1:15:51 Parenting Challenges and Strategies chapter 3
1:15:51 The Importance of Engaging with Children's Artistic Process
1:16:23 Filling Dead Space and Building Emotional Bonds with Children
1:16:55 Cooking with Children and Learning About Them

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