I Survived: My Traumatic Childhood Shaped Me. Learn to Change Your Narrative w/Comedian PAUL SCHEER!

Dr. Mayim Bialik
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Chapters & Sections (141)

0:03 Overcoming Trauma and Finding Self-Respect chapter 3
0:03 Confronting Anger and Finding Freedom
1:05 Embracing Autonomy and Self-Advocacy
3:13 Understanding the Importance of Agency
3:44 The Importance of Agency in Personal Relationships chapter 2
3:44 Unhealthy Patterns of Not Advocating for Oneself
4:16 Paul's Rocky Path to Understanding Agency and Decision-Making
4:47 Paul's Journey to Self-Discovery and Career Success chapter 1
4:47 The Solar Flare Outage and Misidentification of Northern Lights
6:52 Personal Experience with Colorblindness chapter 1
6:52 Initial Reaction to Colorblindness
7:22 Photographing the Northern Lights and Color Perception chapter 2
7:22 Color Perception and Photography
8:26 Understanding Colorblindness and Career Implications
10:31 Personal Story and Colorblindness chapter 2
10:31 Colorblindness Inheritance and Misconceptions
11:01 Tailoring as a Career for Non-English Speakers
12:03 Therapy and Goal Setting chapter 2
12:03 Celebrating Progress and Setting Goals
12:33 Importance of Gut Health and Nutrition
13:34 Introduction and Book Discussion chapter 4
13:34 Trust in AG1 for Whole Body Health
14:05 Author's Book and Introduction
14:36 Personal Collections and Organization
16:08 Meaning Behind Personal Collections
16:40 Author's Creative Process and Personal Reflections chapter 5
16:40 Sharing Personal Experiences and Memories
17:11 Importance of Storytelling in Writing
17:43 Opening Up and Sharing More Personal Stories
18:46 Balancing Humor and Seriousness in Writing
19:17 Writing a Book with Depth and Weight
19:47 The Author's Writing Process and Inspiration chapter 5
19:47 Finding Inspiration in Early Writing
20:19 Crafting a Story and Separating Personal Life
20:50 Sharing Personal Story and Family Secrets
21:56 Speaking Truth and Telling One's Story
22:26 Writing in a Vacuum and Setting Boundaries
22:56 Reflecting on Childhood Experiences chapter 5
22:56 Questioning Parental Influence and Identity
23:26 Reclaiming Narrative and Sharing Childhood Experiences
24:00 Parental Divorce and Negotiation Strategies
24:31 Pretending to be Married and the Impact on Childhood
25:32 Growing Up with a Lie and Trust Issues
26:03 Childhood Experiences and Family Dynamics chapter 4
26:03 Abusive Childhood Household and Escaping
26:33 Parenting Mistakes and Sympathy for Children
27:05 Parents' Divorce and Remarriage
27:35 Abusive Relationship with Stepparent
29:09 Introducing Num Nom and its Benefits for Dogs chapter 3
29:09 Num Nom's Unique Selling Points and Availability
30:11 Nurx's Healthcare Services for Women
30:41 Nurx's Convenient and Affordable Care Options
32:14 Airbnb Hosting Opportunities chapter 3
32:14 Exploring Alternative Income Sources
33:15 Confronting Abuse and Trauma
34:16 Writing About Personal Experiences
35:49 Reflection on Past Trauma and Therapy chapter 4
35:49 Therapist's Role in Traumatic Experience
36:21 Personal Perspective on Trauma and Therapy
37:52 Emotional Difficulty in Reflecting on Past
38:54 Healing and Growth from Traumatic Experience
39:24 The Importance of Emotional Connection and Empathy chapter 3
39:24 The Difficulty of Sharing Personal Stories and the Need for Empathy
40:28 The Power of Storytelling in Activating Emotions and Connection
41:29 The Importance of True Conversations and Empathy in a Social Media World
42:32 Overcoming Embarrassment and Sharing Personal Stories chapter 5
42:32 Finding the Courage to Share a Personal Secret
43:03 The Importance of Honesty and Vulnerability
43:38 Learning to Fight Back Against Abuse
44:41 Struggling with Anger and Violence
45:12 Coping Mechanisms and Finding Balance
45:43 Family Mentality and Keeping Up Appearances chapter 5
45:43 Not Sharing Emotional Reactions with Family
46:14 First Serious Breakup and Family Influence
46:45 Grandma's Phone Answering Habit and Company
47:50 Family Secrets and Keeping Up Appearances
48:52 Judging Each Other Harshly in the Family
49:22 Emotional Control and Past Relationships chapter 4
49:22 Learning to Control Emotions and Prioritize Others' Feelings
49:55 Passive Behavior in Relationships and Fear of Disrupting Others' Emotions
50:26 Reflection on Past Relationship and Fear of Disrupting Others' Emotions
52:00 Realization of the Need to Step into One's Power and Take Control
52:31 Self-Discovery and Healing chapter 4
52:31 Initial Struggles with Trust and Self-Image
54:05 Therapy and the Discovery of Anger
54:38 Finding Freedom and Self-Respect
55:09 Embracing Authenticity and Autonomy
56:12 Embracing Imperfection and Authenticity chapter 5
56:12 Letting Go of the Need to be Perfect
56:42 The Power of Saying No Without Explanation
57:12 Overjustification and the Need for Authenticity
57:43 Finding Freedom in Unapologetic Opinions
58:45 The Importance of Middle Ground and Respectful Disagreement
59:16 Desire for Social Acceptance and Decision-Making chapter 5
59:16 Seeking Social Approval and Feeling Heard
59:48 Overcoming Decision-Induced Anxiety
1:00:20 Balancing Directness and Empathy in Communication
1:00:51 Recognizing Unrealized Fear and Self-Responsibility
1:01:23 Letting Go of Hypervigilance and Self-Reflection
1:01:56 Struggling with People Pleasing and Perfectionism chapter 5
1:01:56 The Dangers of People Pleasing and Compromise
1:02:26 Finding Honesty and Respect in Relationships
1:02:58 Career Advice and the Importance of Surrounding Yourself with Like-Minded People
1:03:29 Writing About Personal Experiences and Finding a Supportive Community
1:04:01 Finding a Group of People Who Understand You and Living with ADHD
1:05:04 Discussion on ADHD and Self-Examination chapter 4
1:05:04 The Spectrum of Behaviors and the Importance of Self-Examination
1:05:34 Therapy and the Fear of Losing Humor or Interest
1:06:07 Personal Experience with Medication and Focus
1:07:38 The Importance of Expert Guidance in Self-Diagnosis and Treatment
1:08:10 Personal Experiences with ADHD and Social Media chapter 3
1:08:10 Comparing ADHD Symptoms and Social Media Influence
1:09:46 The Impact of ADHD on Personal Life and Relationships
1:10:51 Sharing Personal Experiences with ADHD and Common Interests
1:11:21 The Origins of a Podcast chapter 3
1:11:21 Inspiration for the Podcast Idea
1:12:25 Personal Experiences and Movie Discussions
1:13:29 The Evolution of the Podcast
1:14:32 Denzel Washington Movies chapter 5
1:14:32 Netflix Originals and Unseen Movies
1:15:02 Denzel Washington Movie Recommendations
1:15:34 Approach to Criticizing Movies
1:16:06 Madame Web and Character Analysis
1:16:38 Personal Experiences in Movies and TV Shows
1:17:42 Discussion on Movie Criticism and Appreciation chapter 3
1:17:42 Defending Fun Movies and Criticism
1:18:14 Sharing Personal Experiences with Bad but Fun Movies
1:19:16 Comparing Actors and Movie Genres
1:20:49 Parenting and Movie Choices chapter 4
1:20:49 Influence of Parent's Profession on Movie Appreciation
1:21:20 Children's Reaction to Movie Content
1:21:50 Cautious Approach to Movie Selection for Children
1:23:26 Personal Experience with Sharing Movies with Children
1:23:57 Sharing Childhood Movie Memories chapter 4
1:23:57 Mrs Doubtfire and Nostalgic Laughter
1:24:31 Challenges of Sharing Old Movies with Kids
1:25:01 Unintended Nudity in Classic Movies
1:26:05 Pervy Moments in 80s Movies
1:27:08 Impact of Technology on Storytelling chapter 2
1:27:08 Comparing Technology in Old and New Movies
1:27:40 The Importance of Communication in Storytelling

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