Ian Fidance: The Two Wolves Within Him

Disgraceful with Grace O'Malley
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About this episode Comedian Ian Finance discusses his career evolution, including his show 'Ian Doy Doing Odd Jobs' where he expl… AI summary

Comedian Ian Finance discusses his career evolution, including his show 'Ian Doy Doing Odd Jobs' where he explores alternative careers like oyster farming and wrestling, and his experiences with queer identity in comedy. He shares anecdotes about celebrity friendships, past struggles with sobriety, and the challenges of being publicly out as a bisexual man in the industry.

Key takeaways 4
  • Ian Finance hosts a show called 'Ian Doy Doing Odd Jobs' where he takes on various blue-collar and unconventional jobs, such as fixing Pittney Bowes postage meters, working at the last Blockbuster, and participating in AEW wrestling production.
  • Finance discusses the difficulty of being openly queer and bisexual in comedy, noting that he often faces backlash or fetishization from peers and audiences, which has made him more guarded but also more resilient.
  • He shares a personal story about meeting Wes Schultz from The Lumineers early in his career when they were both struggling artists, highlighting how shared experiences of playing to small crowds can lead to genuine friendships.
  • Finance reveals he is sober but had periods of relapse after moving back to New York from Delaware, emphasizing the importance of sharing his story to help others while acknowledging the complexity of his journey.
Notable quotes 4 AI-generated: wording and quote attribution may be wrong. Use the play link to verify.
  • “I think you're going to quit comedy cuz that's it. I got like chopped by the biggest wrestler they have. Like it was they beat the crap out of me. It was the best.”
    ▶ 0:25 Ian Finance describing his experience working with AEW Wrestling, highlighting his willingness to endure physical comedy for entertainment.
  • “I'm like queer and like by which nobody ever [ __ ] believes. Like even if I had a dick in my mouth, people would be like, 'He's he's lying.'”
    ▶ 0:00 Ian discussing the skepticism and stereotypes he faces regarding his queer identity due to his gruff appearance and background.
  • “Seek to understand rather than be understood.”
    Ian quoting St. Francis as a guiding principle for dealing with misunderstandings and criticism in his public life.
  • “The B in LGBT stands for bully. Like it's [laughter] like the last group that you're allowed to be like you're not that. Come on you [ __ ] freak.”
    ▶ 51:34 Ian expressing frustration with the lack of acceptance and support for bisexual individuals within the LGBTQ+ community and broader society.

Chapters & Sections (33)

0:00 Health Advice and Personal Anecdotes chapter 2
2:21 Emotional Expression and Doctor's Vaping
3:57 Diet Pills, Stair Climbing, and Spotlight Desire
7:11 Comedian's Celebrity Encounters and Friendships chapter 2
8:48 Performing for Small Crowds and Musicians
10:50 Celebrity Friendships and Self-Worth
14:04 Oyster farming and queer identity chapter 1
16:50 Queer identity and songwriting
18:41 Unconventional Jobs and Wrestling Experience chapter 1
20:52 Printer Repair and Wrestling Stunts
23:00 Comedy Show Production and Dating Humor chapter 1
25:23 Production Crew and Dating Humor
27:56 Comedy Career and Delaware Connections chapter 2
29:18 Delaware High School and Biden Family Connections
30:17 Comedy Career Timeline and Sobriety
31:36 Childhood Stories and Parental Lies chapter 2
32:48 Parental Lies and Sex Education
34:31 Conquered Pike Childhood Memories
37:21 High School Alcohol and Gangster Culture chapter 1
38:56 Friend's Name Change and Music Scene
41:13 Podcast Toxicity and Public Backlash chapter 5
44:40 Podcast Jokes and Public Backlash
46:26 Public Sexualization and Identity Reduction
47:57 Sexuality as Comic Target
49:33 Projection and Self-Acceptance in Comedy
51:29 LGBTQ+ Bullying and Public Identity
53:46 Managing Parasocial Relationships and Fan Behavior chapter 2
55:41 Addressing Fan Team Allegiances
57:03 Oyster Farming and Picture This Show
59:38 Playing Pictionary with Random Word Generator chapter 1
1:01:23 Guessing Words: Chin, Jaw, and NASA
1:03:53 Rapid Fire Word Association and Old Photo Review chapter 1
1:06:22 Old Photos and Personal Shoutouts

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