L.A.-Based Dating Coach Lauren Salaun Joins Jesse Lee Peterson! (Ep. 426) @LaurenMSalaun

The Fallen State
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Chapters & Sections (92)

00:01 Lauren Salon's Background and Career chapter 3
00:01 Lauren Salon's Background and Career as a Dating Coach
01:03 Lauren Salon's Transition to Dating Coaching
01:57 Lauren's Decision to Become a Relationship Coach
02:54 Marriage and Relationship Dynamics chapter 4
02:54 Lauren's Realization of Self-Work for Fulfilling Relationships
03:50 Lauren's Marriage and Relationship Dynamics
04:41 Lauren's Decision Not to Have Children
06:33 Lauren's Divorce and Relationship Dynamics
07:30 Educated Women and Relationships chapter 7
07:30 Educated Women and Divorce Statistics
08:23 Implications of Educated Women on Marriage and Family Roles
09:21 Impact of Educated Women's Independence on Marriage and Family Roles
10:13 Assessing Potential Partners and Marriage Expectations
11:14 Expectations of a Partner's Education and Career
12:03 Prioritizing Family over Personal Interests
13:00 Balancing Personal Interests with Family Responsibilities
13:56 Dating and Marriage Expectations chapter 6
13:56 Importance of Personal Interests for Fulfillment
15:00 Divorce and Personal Fulfillment
15:53 Divorce and Remarriage
16:29 Men's preferences in conversation partners
17:21 Arrogance and Ego in Educated Women
18:12 Educated Women's Perception of Themselves and Others
19:05 Personal Fulfillment and Identity chapter 5
19:05 Throwing Education as a Jab
19:54 Christian Background and Faith Journey
20:47 Defending one's faith
21:47 Defining Defending One's Faith
23:43 Defending Faith in Conversations with Friends
24:37 Faith and Anger chapter 5
24:37 Experiencing Perfect Peace and Anger
26:27 Addressing the Bible's stance on anger
28:06 Overcoming Anger
28:59 Creating Thoughts and the Role of External Influences
29:44 The Role of Personal Beliefs in Shaping Thoughts
30:40 Identity and Self-Concept chapter 5
30:40 Self-Assessment and Personal Qualities
31:29 Defining Identity and Self-Concept
32:28 Defining Identity and Self-Concept: Exploring Purpose and Connection to God
33:31 Defining Identity and Self-Concept: Exploring the Accumulation of Experiences
34:27 Identity and Self-Concept: Limitations of Labels and the Complexity of Personal Identity
35:19 Women's Expectations and Relationships chapter 6
35:19 The Complexity of Personal Identity: Labels and Self-Concept vs. Personal Experiences
36:05 What Women Want in Relationships
37:02 Expectations vs. Reality in Relationships
37:56 Why Women Need Love and Adoration
38:50 Why Women's Expectations Are Not Met and Their Reactions to It
39:45 Why Women Struggle with Gratitude and Satisfaction
40:41 Unhealthy Relationships and Patterns chapter 5
40:41 Chasing Unfulfilled Expectations in Relationships
42:00 Romanticizing Emotionally Unavailable Men
42:56 The Influence of Social Media and Reality TV on Romanticizing Emotionally Unavailable Men
43:54 Defining 'Players' and 'Makers' in Relationships
44:55 Identifying Patterns in Unhealthy Relationships
47:48 Masculinity and Communication chapter 5
47:48 Blame and Accountability in Unhealthy Relationships
48:31 Victim Culture and Blame-Shifting
49:26 The Impact of Social Media on Communication and Perception
50:25 The Evolution of Masculinity and Perception of Toxicity
51:27 The Origins of the Concept of Toxic Masculinity
52:30 Relationship Roles and Expectations chapter 5
52:30 Why Women Might Have Created the Concept of Toxic Masculinity
53:29 Defining Healthy Masculinity and the Contrast with Toxic Masculinity
54:34 Men Listening to Women's Advice and Perspectives
55:31 Potential Benefits and Drawbacks of Men Listening to Women's Advice
56:16 Responsibility and Boundaries in Emotional Expression
57:04 Blame and Accountability chapter 5
57:04 Should Men Be Emotional and What Does That Mean?
58:02 Dating and Marriage Advice
58:55 Dating Advice: Seven Years Before Marriage
59:37 Assessing a Woman's Willingness to Obey and Lead in Marriage
01:00:26 The Role of Women in Marriage and the Order of God
01:01:26 Child Custody and Parenting chapter 5
01:01:26 Submission and Leadership in Marriage
01:02:12 The Role of Husbands in Marriage: Sacrificial Service and Leadership
01:03:57 Biblical Perspective on Satan and Women
01:05:37 Women's behavior and relationship with their husbands
01:06:18 Women's behavior and relationship with their husbands: Satan as a god
01:07:13 Abuse and Forgiveness chapter 6
01:07:13 Women's behavior in divorce and child custody cases
01:08:00 Moral Implications of Women Taking Children Away from Fathers
01:08:49 Blaming the Man: Victimhood and Manipulation in Child Custody Cases
01:09:37 Blaming the Man: Victimhood and Manipulation in Child Custody Cases - Portrayal of Women as Abusive
01:10:24 Abusive Relationships and Patterns of Behavior
01:11:02 Forgiveness as a Way to Break Patterns of Anger
01:11:54 Social and Moral Issues chapter 5
01:11:54 Forgiveness as a Way to Break Patterns of Anger: Personal Experiences and Forgiveness
01:13:35 Forgiveness and Personal Peace
01:14:26 Love and Social Issues
01:15:17 Personal Preferences and Opinions
01:17:09 Promoting Personal Projects and Businesses

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