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00:00
Host Welcome and Guest Introduction
00:32
Guest Arrival and Applause
01:04
Early Acting Roles and College Background
01:39
Discussion of Independent Films and Audition Experiences
02:15
Career Challenges as a Trans Black Actress
02:45
Preparation for Orange Is the New Black Audition
03:16
Early Dance Training and Transition to Acting
04:20
Trauma, Defense Mechanisms, and Acting Classes
04:50
Memory Work and Emotional Depth in Performance
05:20
Preparation for the Breakthrough Role
05:51
Personal Reflections on Family and Upbringing
06:22
Respect for Mother’s Story and Single-Mother Narrative
06:53
Community Support and Church Influence
07:23
Broader Reflections on Identity and Service
07:57
Church Activities, Family Dynamics, and Personal Growth
08:32
Relationship with Boyfriend and Sexual Orientation Disclosure
09:03
Clarifying 'Golden Gay' Terminology and Identity Labels
09:35
Defining Straight Trans Woman Experience
10:06
Diversity Within Transgender Communities
10:38
Black Community's Relationship with LGBTQ+ Issues
11:40
Historical Context of Black Masculinity and Transphobia
12:11
Media Representation and Queer Agenda Debates
13:18
Impact of Trans Representation in Television
13:49
Blackness and Visibility Through Media Examples
14:21
Legislative Threats to Gender-Affirming Care
15:22
Political Rhetoric and Anti-Trans Legislation
15:55
Culture War as Distraction from Core Issues
16:31
Republican Policies Targeting Trans and LGBTQ+ Rights
17:01
Corporate Influence on Environmental and Social Policy
17:37
Early Influences from Mother’s Education Values
18:08
Historical Perspective on Segregation and Black Teachers’ Care
18:41
Importance of Reading and Critical Thinking Amid Book Bans
19:12
Education as a Pathway to Freedom for Black Communities
20:18
Historical Research on Trans and LGBTQ+ Studies in Nazi Germany
20:48
Destruction of Magnus Hirschfeld’s Research by Nazis
21:21
Linking Historical Oppression to Modern Liberation Movements
21:57
Internal Advocacy Dynamics within the LGBTQ+ Community
22:29
State-Level Anti-Drag and Cross-Dressing Legislation
22:59
Political Climate Fueling Resurgence of Discriminatory Laws
23:30
Stonewall Origins and Trans Visibility
23:56
Shift Toward Respectability in the Early 1970s
24:33
Intersection of Sexuality and Gender Identity
25:04
Internalized Racism, Transphobia, and Homophobia
25:34
Drag Culture vs. Trans Identity in Personal Narrative
26:06
Miss Vera School and Straight Men’s Fetishism
27:10
Confronting Cross‑Dressers at Lucky Chang's
27:43
Internalized Transphobia and Self‑Reflection
28:17
Influence of Black Opera Singer on Perspective
28:53
Exploring Homophobia, Fear, and Internal Dialogue
29:28
Personal Journey of Identity and Coming Out
30:32
Early Life, Suicide Attempt, and Public Perception
31:04
Grandmother's Influence and Loss
31:40
Mother’s Role in Identity Formation
32:10
Religious Conflict and Early Suicidal Thoughts
32:46
Family Support in Transition
33:20
Early Adult Suicidal Ideation and Planning
34:21
Misgendering Concerns in Death Plans
34:53
Creative Work as a Lifeline
36:01
Finding Confidence Through Passion
36:32
Public Presence and Inspiration
37:07
Artistic Passion Overcoming Insecurities
37:42
Celebrating Art and Performance
38:14
Gift Exchange and Musical Appreciation
39:16
Opera Training and Vocal Technique
39:46
Influence of Leontyne Price on Artistic Direction
40:19
Combining Opera with Classical Ballet Studies
40:50
Clarifying Relationship with Diddy and Reality TV Appearances
41:20
Early Acting Classes and Trans Representation Goals
41:53
Building Casting Relationships and Audition Strategy
42:27
Impact of Trans Visibility on Reality TV
42:59
Post-Show Interactions with Diddy and Industry Recognition
44:05
Understanding Audience Dynamics Across Racial Lines
44:37
Comparing Media Reception for Black and White Audiences
45:08
Celebrating Trans Representation in Black Media Ecosystem
45:41
Advocacy for Inclusive Storytelling and Audience Engagement
46:16
Reflections on Trans Representation and Cultural Impact
46:51
Balancing Community Representation with Personal Authenticity
47:25
Embracing Imperfection and Humanizing Public Personas
47:55
Highlighting Advocacy for Black Artists and LGBTQ+ Media
48:29
Showcasing Representation on the Red Carpet
49:02
Supporting Diverse Media Through Hosting Roles
49:35
Transitioning from Giuliana Rancic to New Hosting Opportunities
50:05
Embracing Trans Identity in a Public Career
50:37
Striving for Excellence and Overcoming Pressure
51:08
Cultivating Joyful Preparation in Red Carpet Interviews
51:39
Balancing High Standards with Authenticity and Empathy
52:09
Drawing Inspiration from Black Artistic Traditions
52:39
Addressing Media Perceptions and Maintaining Journalistic Integrity
53:10
Highlighting Empathy Through Celebrity Interviews
53:41
Reflecting on Machine Gun Kelly's Vulnerability and Audience Impact
54:12
Grammys as a Humbling Moment
54:44
Processing Loss and Finding Purpose
55:15
Vulnerability in the Spotlight
55:50
Holding Space for Artists
56:19
Moments of Unexpected Connection on the Carpet
56:49
Celebrating Music Legends and Personal Memories
57:15
Balancing Aging, Identity, and Public Perception
58:25
Navigating Body Image and Cosmetic Choices
1:00:03
Discussing Trans Identity and Societal Expectations
1:01:10
Personal Reflections on Aging, Beauty, and Self‑Care
1:02:12
Announcement of Trans Doll by Mattel
1:02:45
Impact on LGBTQ+ and Broader Audiences
1:03:18
Personal Narrative of Breaking Barriers
1:04:21
Critiquing Own Performances
1:04:54
Learning from Failure and Reassessment
1:05:30
Reevaluating Past Work After Time
1:06:01
First Encounter with Jody Foster
1:06:31
Building Comfort and Trust on Set
1:07:05
Collaborative Performance with Jody Foster
1:08:06
Emmy Nomination and Reflection on Legacy
1:08:36
Humility Amidst Recognition
1:09:09
Future Vision and Community Impact
1:09:44
Billboard Visibility and Personal Legacy
1:10:16
Sidney Poitier Conversation and Industry Doors
1:10:49
Trans Representation in Music Awards
1:11:20
Maintaining Positivity Amid Rejection
1:12:25
Housing Court Experience and Homelessness Fear
1:12:57
Restaurant Work and Financial Struggles
1:13:28
Delayed Breakthrough with Orange Is New Black
1:14:02
Building a Brand Beyond the Show
1:15:08
Diverse Casting and Inclusive Storytelling
1:16:08
Sustaining Artistic Passion Over Time
1:16:43
First Audition and Early Acting Opportunities
1:17:19
Show Residuals and Income
1:17:51
Agent Introduction and Mariska Hargitay Interaction
1:18:23
Actor Feedback on Performance
1:18:55
Tinder Account Flagging and Recovery
1:19:31
Hinge Experience and App Issues
1:20:07
Relationship Priorities Beyond Appearance
1:20:37
Age Gap and Emotional Maturity in Relationship
1:21:08
Relocation Motivated by Partner
1:21:42
Partner’s Musical Taste and Shared Interests
1:22:15
Emotional Support and Care in Relationship
1:22:51
Therapy and Self‑Work for Receiving Love
1:23:22
Feeling Worthy of Connection
1:23:49
Therapeutic Insight on Belonging and Worthiness
1:24:22
Hope for Finding Love at Later Age
1:25:24
Meeting a Partner in Different Cities During COVID-19
1:27:08
Balancing Public Exposure and Personal Boundaries
1:27:10
The Role of Spirituality in a Relationship
1:28:10
Protecting Partners from Public Scrutiny
1:29:16
Attachment Theory and Self-Management in Love
1:30:27
Avoiding Drama Through Personal Accountability
1:31:36
Stigma of Grindr vs. Tinder in the Trans Community
1:32:41
Personal Experiences with Craigslist and Grindr During Pandemic
1:33:16
Initial Shock at Hotel Room Gathering
1:33:47
Explanation of Booty Bump and Its Risks
1:34:18
Personal Experience with Grindr and Pandemic Anxiety
1:34:49
Grindr Incident Involving a Friend and Unconsensual Play
1:35:19
Discussion of Race Play Consent and Sexual Citizenship
1:36:25
Podcast Episode on Good Sexual Citizenship
1:37:00
Emancipation Debate During Red Table Talk
1:38:11
Reflections on Exploitation and Respect in Media
1:39:13
Positive Reception from Jada Smiths After the Talk
1:40:15
Critique of Public and Media Reaction to the Smiths' Relationship
1:41:15
Personal Perspective on Celebrity Image and Authenticity
1:42:15
Discussion about Public Honoring of Generosity
1:42:42
Personal Grief Over Misuse of Gifts
1:43:21
Meeting Jada and Emotional Impact
1:43:52
Thoughts on Public Perception and Evolution
1:44:29
Exploration of Mess in Therapy Context
1:44:53
Human Experience and Artistic Interest
1:46:00
Balancing Accountability with Supportive Relationships
1:47:10
Critical Thinking About Public Narratives
1:47:41
Beyoncé’s Grammy Journey and Artistic Praise
1:48:14
Discussion of Beyoncé’s Live Performances and Influence
1:49:20
Personal Interaction with Beyoncé at the Grammys
1:50:53
Beyoncé Observes Deja Vu Choreography in Central Park
1:51:23
Discussion of Social Media Awareness and Fan Interaction
1:52:00
Solidarity Among Black Women in Fashion and Entertainment
1:52:35
Queen Latifah on Collaboration Over Competition
1:53:42
Red Carpet Interaction with Stephen Lacy
1:54:14
Personal Reflections on Relationships and Artistic Influences
1:55:23
Reactions to LGBTQ Artists in Mainstream Media
1:56:23
Critique of Right-Wing Narratives on LGBTQ Visibility
1:57:25
Discussion of Pronoun Usage and Non-Binary Identity
1:58:31
Navigating Gender Fluidity and Pronoun Respect
1:59:03
Misgendering Experiences and the Need for Respectful Pronouns
1:59:34
Using Singular 'They' When Gender Is Unknown
2:00:04
Historical Terms for Non‑Binary Identities
2:01:07
Humanizing Pronoun Use and Avoiding Dehumanization
2:01:46
Public Struggles of a Famous Non‑Binary Individual
2:02:52
Personal Journey to Understanding 'They' Pronouns
2:03:23
Friends’ Experiences with Non‑Binary Identity
2:04:56
Historical Examples of Non‑Binary and Gender Fluid People
2:05:26
Intersectional Feminism, Queer Theory, and Personal Academic Background
2:06:27
Reflection on Learning, Humility, and the Need for Continued Reading
2:07:00
Initial Talk Show Opportunity and Rejection
2:07:30
Influence of Barbara Walters and Oprah on Interview Style
2:08:01
Podcast Success and Transition to On-Camera Interviews
2:08:38
Unique Content on Peacock and Desire for Wider Reach
2:09:09
Admiration for The Breakfast Club and Desire to Join
2:09:39
Discussion of Black Excellence and LGBTQ+ Representation
2:10:44
Co-hosting Experience and Audience Reaction
2:11:19
Supportive Network and Call Coordination for The Breakfast Club
2:11:54
Direct Communication with Charlemagne About Show Participation
2:12:24
Phone Call to Eddie and Confirmation of Co-hosting
2:13:31
Final Coordination with Eddie and Scheduling Details
2:14:01
Transition to Discussion on Ageism and Madonna
2:14:32
Personal Reflection on Ageism and Public Scrutiny
2:15:05
Critique of Youth‑Centric Beauty Expectations
2:15:40
Personal Idolization of Madonna and Legacy Artists
2:16:15
Discussion on Public Attention and Celebrity Image
2:16:48
Game Introduction – Tweet Challenge
2:17:23
Tweet Content and Political Commentary
2:19:35
Game Introduction – Name‑Drop Challenge
2:20:07
Name‑Drops of Doja Cat, Zach Campbell, and Others
2:20:43
Personal Anecdotes with Viola Davis
2:22:03
Reflections on Black and Trans Representation in Hollywood
2:23:29
Stories about Meghan Markle and Industry Impact
2:24:35
First Contact with Caitlyn Jenner
2:25:08
Post-Diane Sawyer Interview Interaction
2:25:38
Discussion of Caitlyn’s Children and Public Image
2:26:09
Caitlyn’s Future Fashion Statements
2:26:44
Lil Boosie Fan Support Story
2:27:16
Lil Boosie’s Relationship with the LGBTQ+ Community
2:27:51
Kim Petras Grammy Win and Trans Visibility
2:28:55
Oprah’s Essence Speech on Wealth and Dreams
2:30:01
Oprah’s Message of Service and Authentic Power
2:31:33
Discussion on Media Ownership and Future Platforms
2:33:10
Therapy as a Tool for Self-Discovery
2:33:46
Balancing Cultural Critique with Personal Expression
2:34:21
Embracing Authenticity Over External Expectations
2:34:56
Therapeutic Insights on Childhood Trauma
2:35:28
Turning Personal Survival into Narrative Power
2:35:59
Linking Trauma to Physical Health Outcomes
2:36:33
Understanding ACEs and Their Long-Term Impact
2:37:03
Confronting Public Criticism with Resilience
2:38:08
Managing Emotional Boundaries in High-Pressure Situations
2:39:48
Choosing Compassion Over Retaliation
2:40:23
Affirming Inner Light Amid External Critique
2:40:57
Public Scrutiny of a Trans Woman’s Online Presence
2:41:28
Therapeutic Insight into Industry Fakeness
2:42:01
Setting Personal Boundaries with Unwanted Praise
2:42:33
Belief in Karma and Its Influence on Interactions
2:43:05
Respecting Others’ Privacy in Public Discourse
2:44:07
Celebrating Laverne Cox’s Advocacy and Cultural Impact
2:44:42
Expressing Gratitude for Joy and Vulnerability
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