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00:01
Host Welcome and Guest Teaser
00:32
Attic Setting and Mood Creation
01:04
Commentary on Beauty in Performance
01:36
Discussion of Appearance vs Talent in Comedy and Music
02:07
Friend’s Observation on Beauty and Sound
02:37
Self-Image Challenges and Overthinking Attire
03:08
Hat Styling Suggestion and Hair Concerns
03:40
Discussion of Indian Heritage and Family Origins
04:12
Family Background in Texas, Brooklyn, and Oklahoma
04:42
Dad as a Classical Indian Musician and Influence on The Beatles
05:45
Fan Mail Style of the Musician and Peace & Love Theme
06:17
Divorce, Dad’s Death, and Emotional Healing
06:47
Reconnecting with Dad at Age 18 and Family Rebuilding
07:18
Dad’s Longevity, Legacy, and Final Years
08:19
Resentment and Perspective on Father’s Absence
08:50
Impact of Parenting on Personal Growth
09:22
Balancing Grief and Responsibility as a Parent
10:24
Mom’s Early Life and Family Background
11:27
Transition from Script Supervisor to Nurse
12:29
Suburban Texas Childhood and Cultural Mix
13:02
Navigating Mixed Heritage in a Diverse Community
15:06
Early Musical Exposure through Church Choir
16:09
Piano Lessons Experience
16:39
Mom's Teaching Strategy and Commitment
17:12
Theory Lessons and Academic Music
18:46
Music Taste Evolution and Pop Culture Exposure
19:20
Sad Music Preference as Emotional Outlet
19:53
Discussion of Emotional Expression and Childhood Feelings
20:23
High School Crushes, Band Participation, and Gender Roles
21:56
Mother's Sexuality, Parenting Choices, and Family Dynamics
23:27
Family Absence of Male Figures
23:58
First Romantic Experience in High School
24:30
Arts High School as Life-Changing Environment
25:00
Summer Camp Attendance and Networking
25:33
Mentorship from Jazz Pianist Teacher
26:06
Exploration of Dance and Drumming Interests
26:37
Attraction to Passionate Artists
27:09
Fear of Not Meeting Expectations in Relationships
28:12
Long-Term Relationship Dynamics and Regret
29:44
Emotional Vulnerability and Fear of Success
30:16
Choosing Jazz Education at University
31:20
Romantic Notion of Jazz Identity
31:51
High School Billy Holiday Performance
32:24
Uncertainty About Jazz Trajectory
32:55
Leaving University for New York
33:27
Meeting Jesse Harris and Songwriting Beginnings
33:57
Restaurant Work vs. Music Career
34:28
Deciding to Wait Tables for Income
34:59
Mom’s Influence and Returning Home
35:29
First Year Depression and Support System
36:00
Meeting Blue Note’s Bruce Lenval
36:32
Debut Demo and Genre Negotiation
37:03
Blue Note Contract and Recording Process
39:08
Record Label Promotion Efforts
39:39
Year‑Long Escalation to Grammy Nominations
40:11
Family Issues Amid Success
40:41
Feeling of Accidental Fame
41:12
Confidence vs. Fraudulent Feelings at the Grammys
42:15
Managing Online Reputation Early On
43:16
Transition to Social Media and Money Management
44:19
Relationship Challenges with Fame
45:22
Navigating Pressure and Maintaining Musical Focus
46:57
Feeling Guilt Over Not Writing Songs
47:27
Interpreting and Owning Music Despite Not Writing It
48:38
Family Influence on Emotional Health
49:00
Friends and Management as Grounding Presence
49:32
First Experience with 60 Minutes Interview
50:02
Perception of Media Portrayal and Ego Management
51:04
Handling Clickbait Questions from Interviewers
51:36
Reacting to Negative Media Coverage and Political Misinterpretation
52:06
Learning from Public Criticism and Maintaining Self‑Esteem
53:40
Impact of Negative Reviews on Artistic Identity
54:10
Balancing Public Praise and Personal Vulnerability
55:12
Discussion of Media Shift and Click Culture
55:44
Personal Approach to Social Media Presence
56:15
Authenticity vs. Public Persona
56:45
First Grammy Night and Its Impact
57:16
Reflections on Winning and Media Attention
57:47
Audience Size and Touring Strategy
58:18
Burnout from Constant Promotion
58:49
Boundary Setting and People‑pleasing Tendencies
59:50
Album Sales Milestone and Creative Freedom
1:00:21
Shift to Smaller Projects for Joy
1:01:22
Balancing Success with Personal Fulfillment
1:01:53
Current Side Projects and Future Recording Plans
1:02:25
Maintaining Creativity Amidst Financial Success
1:02:56
Perspective on Money and Artistic Freedom
1:03:28
Age as a Creative Pitfall
1:04:05
Creative Waves and Depression
1:04:32
Long-Term Relationships as Creative Support
1:05:05
Parenthood and Creative Inspiration
1:06:37
Music Discovery via Streaming Platforms
1:07:10
Curated Listening and Song Collection
1:07:40
Balancing Family Life with Music Production
1:08:12
Collaborations and Studio Work
1:08:43
Home Music Sessions with Spouse
1:09:15
Children’s Musical Engagement and Family Culture
1:10:17
Parenting Stories and Child Creativity
1:10:48
Personal Hobbies Beyond Music
1:11:19
Ethiopian Piano Music Appreciation
1:11:51
Discussion of TB Collaboration and Playlist Creation
1:12:23
Studio Experience with TB and Song Selection
1:12:54
Formation of Puss & Boots Band
1:13:26
Band Dynamics and Instrument Switching
1:13:57
Writing New Songs with Bandmates
1:14:28
The Little Willies and Country Influences
1:15:00
Interpretation of a Controversial Song
1:15:30
Exploring Song Meaning and Listener Perspective
1:16:01
Personal Reflections on Song Lyrics
1:17:04
Creative Process for New and Old Songs
1:18:07
Imagining Music Through Lyrics
1:19:10
Future Songwriting and Band Collaboration Plans
1:20:42
Guitar Anxiety and Instrument Preference
1:21:13
Audience Staring Observation
1:21:47
Dolly Tribute Performance Overview
1:22:17
Collaboration with Dolly’s Step-Mother
1:23:50
Song Lyrics Analysis and Emotional Themes
1:26:59
Performance Reflections and Audience Interaction
1:31:11
Initial Discussion of Padm and Skin Thickness
1:32:55
Metaphorical Use of Padm in Social Contexts
1:33:20
Physical Sensation and Thickness Perception
1:34:20
Feminist Perspective on Language Usage
1:35:20
Discussion of Body Autonomy and Feminism
1:37:00
Historical Context and Sensitive Language
1:38:55
Personal Sensations and Social Reactions
1:39:59
Frivolous Phrase and Slavery Reference
1:40:30
Historical Context of Slavery in Language
1:41:03
Impact of Using Slave Imagery
1:43:04
Jewish Concerns About the Hitler Term
1:43:36
Need for Explanation from Jewish Speakers
1:44:07
Balancing Historical Memory and Language Use
1:45:40
George Harrison Meets Ravi Shankar
1:46:11
Sitar Introduction to Beatles Sound
1:46:44
Legacy and Personal Anecdotes About Shankar
1:47:17
Commercial Success of Shankar’s Music
1:48:21
Mix CD Creation with Napster and CDs
1:49:25
Discussion of Physical Interaction in Relationships
1:51:32
Narrative About Being Lifted by a Partner
1:54:05
Recollection of Piano Lessons and Parental Influence
1:55:40
Embarrassing Piano Recital Experience
1:57:14
Mushroom Haircut Joke and Tension Relief
1:57:44
Beta Blockers and Restorative Hair Treatments Discussion
1:58:14
Recital Memories and Family Photo Talk
1:58:47
Arts Camp Boarding School Mention
1:59:17
Myspace Timeline and Album Release Discussion
1:59:48
Cheerleading Term Confusion (Grundies vs Spankies)
2:00:20
Explanation of Grundies and Spankies Terminology
2:00:50
Personal Anecdote About Tight Underwear
2:01:22
Cheerleader Sassy Mention and Skirt Discussion
2:01:53
Eternal Sunshine Discussion and Friend Reveal
2:02:23
Struggle in One-Bedroom Apartment and Identity Evolution
2:03:27
Relationship with Bri and Feelings of Worth
2:04:31
Reflection on Past Self and Current Love