The New Science of Success. Stop Sabotaging Yourself, with Motivation Expert Dr. Kyra Bobinet!

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Chapters & Sections (176)

0:01 Faking Orgasms and the Role of the Brain chapter
3:38 Understanding Motivation and Dopamine chapter 1
3:38 The Science of Motivation and Dopamine
4:12 Framing for Success and Overcoming Failure chapter 3
4:12 Iterative Mindset for Success
5:17 Unstoppable Brain and Overcoming Faulty Thought Patterns
6:19 The Problem of Performance-Based Tools and Mental Health
7:21 The Concept of Performance vs. Authenticity chapter 4
7:21 Performing as Ourselves and the Disease of Failure
8:25 Examples of Performative Behavior
8:58 The Neural Network and Disempowerment
9:28 The Consequences of Performing for Others
11:02 Motivation Loss and Performance chapter 4
11:02 The Dangers of Doom Scrolling and Self-Blame
11:35 Reframing Goals and Habits
12:38 Practical Application of Reframing
13:08 The Harm of Holding onto Goals and Failure
14:11 Failure and Motivation chapter 4
14:11 The Concept of Failure and the Brain's Response
14:44 Managing Failure vs Success
15:47 Product Recommendation and Personal Experience
16:48 Sponsored Content and Pet Health Insurance
17:19 ASPCA Pet Health Insurance Program chapter 1
17:19 ASPCA Pet Health Insurance Program Overview and Features
17:51 The Impact of Failure and Unconscious Motivators chapter 3
17:51 Submitting Claims and Reimbursement Process
18:53 The Dangers of Unconscious Motivators and Failure
19:56 Rethinking Goal Setting and Failure
20:27 The Concept of Failure Detector and Motivator Killer chapter 4
20:27 Introduction to the Magic Habenula and its Failure Detection Mechanism
21:00 Orienting the Audience to the Brain's Anatomy and the Location of the Habenula
21:30 The Connection between the Habenula and Other Brain Regions, including Depression and Anxiety
22:03 The Potential of the Habenula in Treating Mental Wellness, including Depression and Addiction
24:06 Discussion on Depression and Failure chapter 4
24:06 Ketamine and Deep Brain Stimulation for Depression
24:38 Unintentional Triggers of Failure
25:11 Failure Types and Brain Habits
25:43 Personal Experience with Failure and Overcoming Habits
27:47 Performance Anxiety and Procrastination chapter 3
27:47 The Role of the Habenula in Performance Anxiety
28:18 Procrastination and Fear of Failure
28:49 Imposter Syndrome and Performance Pressure
29:52 Therapy and Comparison chapter 1
29:52 The Impact of Failure on Motivation
30:54 The Futility of Predicting Success chapter
32:58 The Iterative Mindset in Health and Fitness chapter
34:34 The Problem with Goal-Framing and Expectations chapter 4
34:34 The Impact of Unrealistic Expectations on Motivation and Self-Blame
35:05 The Dangers of Marketing and the Performance Culture
36:39 The Role of Oxytocin in Social Systems and Performative Behavior
37:40 Potential Benefits for Trauma Survivors and the Limitations of This Approach
38:11 The Iterative Mindset and Depression chapter 3
38:11 Iterative Approach to Overcoming Depression and Addiction
38:42 Examples of Iteration in Personal Growth
40:47 Iterative Problem-Solving and Adaptation
41:50 Iterative Mindset and Components chapter 4
41:50 Components of Iterative Mindset
42:22 Inspiration and Mantras in Iterative Process
42:53 Time and Habit Design in Iterative Mindset
43:55 Environment and Cultural Influences on Iterative Process
44:57 The Importance of Reducing and Adding in the Brain chapter 3
44:57 The Role of Heris Sixs in Reducing and Adding
45:28 The Importance of Togetherness in Changing Habits
45:59 Performative Behavior and the Expectations Component of Mindset
47:02 The Power of Togetherness and Social Accountability chapter 2
47:02 Reframing Failure and Swaps for Neuroplastic Change
48:08 The Biggest Mistake People Make About Habits
48:39 The Concept of No Quick Fix and Mindset chapter 1
48:39 No Quick Fix and Life Commitment to Mindset
49:11 Depression as a Failure to Extinguish Wildfires chapter 4
49:11 Depression as a Failure to Extinguish Wildfires in Depression
49:44 Countering the Idea of Failure and Depression
50:15 Depression as a Misunderstood Concept
50:46 Major Depressive Disorder and Personal Failure Meter
52:18 Deep Brain Stimulation for Mental Health chapter 5
52:18 Case Study of Deep Brain Stimulation for Depression
52:49 Explanation of Deep Brain Stimulation and Its Applications
53:19 Mechanism of Action for Deep Brain Stimulation
53:50 History and Development of Deep Brain Stimulation
54:50 Applying Iterative Mindset to Achieve Healthy Goals
55:23 The Dangers of Social Media and Influencers chapter 5
55:23 Performative Behavior on Social Media
55:55 Empowerment and Self-Identity
56:26 Extended Adolescence and Navigating Uncertainty
56:56 Teaching Iterative Mindset as a Protective Factor
57:59 Addiction and Relapse
58:30 The Role of the Habenula in Addiction chapter 4
58:30 Understanding the Addictive Process and the Habenula's Involvement
59:01 The Concept of 'Addiction Medicine 2.0' and the Role of the Habenula
59:33 The Importance of Managing Failure and Negativity in Addiction Treatment
1:00:06 The Connection Between the Habenula and Dopamine in Addiction
1:01:38 The Role of Habenula in Addiction and Depression chapter 5
1:01:38 The Struggle to Regain Equilibrium and the Role of Addictive Substances
1:02:09 The Concept of Withdrawal and the Necessity to Stop Pursuing Pleasure
1:02:40 The Analogy of the Ring in the Nose and the Influence of the Habenula
1:03:44 The Impact of the Habenula on Feeling Stuck and Numb
1:04:16 Breaking the Loop of Dopamine Seeking and Depression
1:04:48 Dopamine Fasting and Addiction chapter 5
1:04:48 Unconventional Approaches to Quitting Addictions
1:05:19 Miracles of Behavior Change and Harm Reduction
1:05:49 Oxytocin, Satiety, and Depression
1:06:20 Reframing Failure and Addiction
1:06:50 The Wrong View of Fixing Addictions
1:07:51 Escaping Reality and Identifying Psychological Traps chapter 5
1:07:51 Recognizing Energy Wastage and Escapism
1:08:23 Auditing Thought Patterns and Expectations
1:08:54 Problem-Solving and Iteration
1:09:55 Recognizing and Addressing Trauma Reactions
1:10:58 Swapping News for Word Games
1:11:29 The Impact of News on Mental Health chapter 4
1:11:29 The Problem with News Consumption
1:12:00 Personal Experience and the Change in News Consumption
1:12:30 The Role of Social Media in News Consumption
1:14:07 Finding Alternative Solutions to Manage Overload
1:14:38 Rituals, Psychedelics, and the Concept of 'I Am' chapter 6
1:14:38 The Significance of 'I Am' in Shifting Mindsets
1:15:09 The Relationship Between 'I Am' and Failure Mindset
1:15:43 Transforming Notions of 'I Am' to Focus on Learning and Iteration
1:16:14 The Importance of Reidentifying 'I Am' and the Narrative Self
1:16:50 The Limitations of Positive Thinking and the Need for Iteration
1:17:21 Scenarios of Changing Behavior and the Role of 'I Am'
1:18:25 Avoidant Attachment and the Role of the Vula chapter 4
1:18:25 The Impact of Avoidant Attachment on Relationships
1:19:26 The Loop of Failure and the Importance of Iteration
1:19:58 Finding What Turns Off the Vula and Overcoming Avoidant Attachment
1:20:30 Strategies for Overcoming Overeating and the Pleasure Principle
1:22:01 Mindset and Iteration in Overcoming Challenges chapter 5
1:22:01 Building Resilience and Overcoming Relapse
1:22:32 Hacking Unhealthy Habits and Mindful Eating
1:23:35 Fitness Challenges and Iteration in Goal Achievement
1:24:05 Performance vs. Iteration in Fitness and Self-Talk
1:24:37 Iterating Through Failure and Finding Long-Term Success
1:25:39 Self-Reflection on Performative Needs chapter 5
1:25:39 Personal Performative Tendencies and Expectations
1:26:10 Supporting Others' Performative Needs
1:26:40 Compromised Support Due to Personal Issues
1:27:14 Research and Implementation of New Exercises
1:27:46 Avoiding Relapse and Staying Motivated
1:28:48 Self-Reflection and Performance chapter 6
1:28:48 Grieving Loss and Focusing on the Present
1:29:19 Iterative Progress and Performative Fuel
1:29:50 The Lull After the High and Negative Habenula
1:30:22 Sex, Performance, and True Expression
1:31:26 Faking Orgasms and Protecting the Partner's Habenula
1:31:56 Dopamine Seeking, Oxytocin, and Negative Habenula
1:32:26 The Role of the Brain in Emotional Experience chapter 3
1:32:26 The Impact of Negative Emotions on Behavior
1:32:57 Denial and Numbing of Negative Emotions
1:33:28 Authenticity in Sexual Relationships
1:35:33 The Complexity of Sex and Authenticity chapter 3
1:35:33 The Inconsistency of Sexuality and Empowerment
1:37:06 Feminist Perspectives on Sexuality and Authenticity
1:37:38 The Impact of Pornography on Authentic Expression
1:39:10 Addiction and Dopamine chapter 3
1:39:10 Dopamine and Addiction Patterns
1:40:12 Chronic Pain and Mind-Body Syndrome
1:40:43 Habenula's Role in Addiction and Depression
1:42:16 The Relationship Between Trauma, Depression, and Autoimmune Disorders chapter 5
1:42:16 The Impact of Adverse Childhood Experiences on Brain Function
1:42:48 The Connection Between Depression and Autoimmune Disorders
1:43:19 The Role of the Habenula in Depression and Autoimmune Disorders
1:43:52 Practical Strategies for Overcoming Depression and Achieving an Unstoppable Brain
1:44:57 The Potential Consequences of Sectioning Out the Habenula
1:45:29 Psychic Pain, Medial Mitigation, and Lateral Habenula chapter 4
1:45:29 Mitigating Psychic Pain and Lateral Habenula Study
1:46:02 Dr. Kyra Bobinet's Book and Unstoppable Brain
1:47:36 Performative Expectations in Relationships and Culture
1:48:38 Authentic Self, Modern Society, and Body Image Comparison
1:49:09 Performative Tools and Goals chapter 3
1:49:09 Critique of Performative Tools and Goals
1:50:14 Reframing Goals for Functional Performance
1:51:48 Discussion of Failure and Impostor Syndrome
1:52:52 Overcoming Limiting Beliefs and Embracing Iterative Mindset chapter 3
1:52:52 Challenging All-or-Nothing Thinking and Binary Options
1:53:23 Finding Creative Solutions through Iterative Mindset
1:54:24 Appreciation and Incorporating New Perspectives

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