You Can’t “Solve” Your Relationship - Arthur Brooks

Chris Williamson
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Chapters & Sections (92)

0:00 Importance of Consistency and Curiosity chapter 2
0:00 Importance of Consistency and Curiosity
3:00 Finding Meaning in Life's Unhappiness
5:17 Effect of New Learning Methods on ADHD Individuals chapter 2
5:17 Parent Reflects on ADHD and Learning
6:50 Alternative Learning Methods for Children
9:27 The Complexity of Falling in Love chapter 3
9:27 The Complexity of Falling in Love
11:06 The Science of Falling in Love
12:50 Incel Researcher's Perspective on Attraction
14:07 Importance of Storefront in Attracting Customers chapter 3
14:07 Importance of Storefront in Attracting Customers
15:39 Serotonin Levels and Clinical Depression
16:52 The Role of Serotonin in Falling in Love
18:03 Anxiety and Genetics Discussion chapter 3
18:03 Personality Traits and Genetic Predispositions
19:43 Understanding Anxiety and Neurochemical Cascade
21:01 Human Bonding and Attachment Stages
22:34 Relationship Bonding and Travel Essentials chapter 2
22:34 Relationship Bonding and Travel Essentials
25:16 Dating Apps and Relationship Compatibility Issues
27:16 Dating Preferences and Immune System Compatibility chapter 3
27:16 Dating Preferences and Immune System Compatibility
29:18 Stages of Attraction and Relationship Development
30:34 The Biology of Falling in Love
32:02 Manipulative Relationship Building Techniques chapter 3
32:02 Manipulative Relationship Building Technique
33:50 Workplace Relationships and Extramarital Affairs
35:10 Love and Attachment in Human Relationships
38:07 Jealousy in Relationships Explained Biologically chapter 2
38:07 Jealousy in Relationships and Biological Basis
40:16 Health Benefits of Lab Tests and Brain Circuitry
42:20 Understanding Attraction and Relationship Dynamics chapter 2
42:20 Understanding Attraction and Relationship Dynamics
44:45 Perception Bias in Attraction and Relationships
46:31 Managing Anxiety and Emotions Effectively chapter 4
46:31 Managing Anxiety and Emotions Effectively
47:58 Managing Chronic Anxiety in Modern Life
49:09 Managing Anxiety through Fear Acceptance
50:23 Managing Anxiety and Long Distance Relationships
52:08 Challenges of Long-Distance Relationships chapter 2
52:08 Challenges of Long-Distance Relationships
55:06 Electrolyte Drink Benefits and Refund Policy
56:44 Maintaining Intimacy in Marriage and Relationships chapter 4
56:44 Maintaining Intimacy in Romantic Relationships
58:58 Love and Language Barriers
1:00:24 Relationship Failure and Entrepreneurship
1:02:02 Benefits of Early Marriage as a Startup
1:03:32 Learning from Failure and Dark Triad Relationships chapter 2
1:03:32 Learning from Failure and Dark Triad Relationships
1:05:12 Neurochemical Attraction and Mate Choice
1:07:42 Attractiveness and Resource Abundance Preferences chapter 2
1:07:42 Attractiveness and Resource Abundance Preferences
1:09:33 Relationships and Technology
1:12:28 Addiction to Pornography and Relationship Expectations chapter 2
1:12:28 Addiction to Pornography and Relationship Expectations
1:14:40 Smart Bed Technology and Incel Violence Discussion
1:16:56 Male Sedation and Societal Instability chapter 2
1:16:56 Male Sedation and Social Instability
1:18:49 Importance of Positive Role Modeling for Children
1:21:15 Parenting and Breaking Trauma Cycles chapter 2
1:21:15 Parenting and Breaking Trauma Cycles
1:23:31 Importance of Metacognition and Self-Control
1:25:28 Critique of Evolutionary Psychology and Wisdom Industry chapter 3
1:25:28 Critique of Evolutionary Psychology and Wisdom Industry
1:27:15 Potential Problem with Knowledge Overload
1:28:28 Overcoming Negativity Bias through Gratitude
1:29:45 Importance of Experimentation and Habit Change chapter 4
1:29:45 Importance of Experimentation and Commitment
1:31:14 Overcoming Relationship Contempt and Resentment
1:32:47 Motive Attribution Asymmetry in Conflict
1:34:16 Attribution Asymmetry and Contempt in Relationships
1:36:24 Marriage Contempt and Communication Breakdown chapter 3
1:36:24 Marriage Contempt and Communication Breakdown
1:38:41 Career Fulfillment vs. Relationship Satisfaction
1:40:11 The Dangers of Success Addiction in Relationships
1:41:28 Maintaining Passion and Balance in Relationships chapter 4
1:41:28 Maintaining Balance in Relationships and Careers
1:42:50 Touring Experience and Energy Levels
1:44:17 Transition from Solo to Social Preferences
1:45:50 Career Transition and Fluid Intelligence
1:47:43 Career Rebooting and Crystallized Intelligence chapter 3
1:47:43 Career Rebooting and Crystallized Intelligence
1:49:30 Adapting to Life's Changing Curve
1:50:49 Importance of Older People in Business
1:52:06 Personality Changes Over Time chapter 2
1:52:06 Personality Changes Over Time
1:54:27 Overcoming Fear of Failure and Irrelevance
1:57:27 Confronting Death Fear through Meditation chapter 3
1:57:27 Confronting Death Fear through Meditation
1:59:37 Overcoming Death Fears and Earning Love
2:01:17 Finding Purpose and Overcoming Adversity

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