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00:00
Welcome and Host Banter
00:31
Guest Introduction and Book Mention
01:02
Host Game Show Reference
02:07
Name Pronunciation and Greek Origin
02:38
Childhood Identity Struggles
03:11
Father’s Immigration and Travel Story
03:42
Grandmother’s Marriage Arrangement
04:12
Family Business and Greek Stereotype
05:44
Motivation to Study Human Sexuality
06:14
Personal Experiences and Graduate School Decision
07:18
Research Questions on Long‑Term Sexuality
08:52
Research on Teen Sexual Activity Trends
09:24
Shift Toward Solo and Virtual Sex
09:55
Evolution of Vibrator Design and Materials
10:25
Integration of USB Power and Computer Connectivity
10:57
Potential for VR-Linked Sexual Devices
10:57
Remote Control of Vibrators Over Wi‑Fi
11:27
Introduction to Sex Addiction Debate
11:59
Public Stigma and Lack of Compassion
13:01
Neurochemical Mechanisms in Sexual Compulsion
13:33
Behavioral Reward Systems vs. Drug Effects
14:05
Tolerance and Escalation in Sexual Addiction
14:37
Diagnostic Recognition of Sexual Compulsivity
15:09
Historical Roots of Sex Addiction Concept
15:40
Controversy and Criticism in Early Research
16:42
Shame in Sexual Conversations with Children
17:13
Normalizing Shame Around Male Anatomy
17:44
Parental Shame and Its Impact on Sexual Addiction
18:14
Shame, Biology, and the Human Response to Sexuality
18:45
Neuroscience of Dissociation in Children
19:16
Adrenal Response and Survival Instincts in Youth
20:17
Cortical Disconnect During High Arousal States
20:48
911 Study on Facial Expressions and PTSD Prediction
21:20
Attachment, Regulation, and Trauma Response
22:03
Avoidant vs. Hyperarousal Responses to Stress
22:54
Evolutionary Hunting Context and Dissociation
23:30
Flow States, Creativity, and Moderate Dissociation
24:00
Pathological Dissociation as Escape Mechanism
24:32
Hunter Focus and Narrow Attention in Survival Situations
25:01
Automatic Survival Strategies in Children
25:31
Sympathetic Arousal and Shame States
26:01
Arousal Template Formation Pre-Puberty
26:32
Debate on Strip Club Exposure and Trauma
27:03
Moral Ambiguity of Trauma-Driven Choices
27:37
BDSM as a Controversial Therapeutic Pathway
28:09
Case Study of Abuse-Linked BDSM Interest
29:11
Therapeutic Dominator and Aftercare
30:14
Shift from Harmful to Healthy BDSM Practices
30:45
Awareness and Choice in Recovery
31:15
SLA and the Definition of Sobriety for Sex Addicts
31:45
Comparing Sexual Addiction to Other Addictions
32:17
Circle Plan and Behavioral Recovery in SAA
33:19
Inner, Middle, and Outer Circles of Sexual Addiction
33:51
Maladaptive Coping in Unstable Family Environments
34:22
Isolation and Secretive Behaviors of Addicts
34:54
Fantasy as a Dissociative Escape
35:26
Imagined Relationships and Stalking Tendencies
35:57
Love Addiction vs. Substance Abuse Comparisons
37:00
Recognizing Red Flags in Romantic Pursuits
39:36
Stalking Dynamics and Zero-Response Strategy
40:37
Projection in Love Addicts
41:07
Reality Check and Relationship Dynamics
41:39
Secure Attachment and Mutual Listening
42:10
Flirtation as Energy Exchange
42:40
Healthy Flirting Boundaries in Marriage
43:11
Validation Needs and Self-Confidence
44:12
Tantric Practices Beyond Orgasm
44:44
Erotic Charge and Self-Responsibility
45:16
Intimate Eye Contact and Autonomic Activation
45:47
From Physical to Heart Connection in Sexuality
46:18
Recovery and Shame-Free Sexuality
47:22
Monogamy, Polyamory, and Future Trends
47:52
Fluidity of Male Sexual Identity
48:56
Book Overview and Craigslist Focus
49:24
Defining 'Not Gay' in the Study
49:57
Psychological Evaluation of Men and Women
50:29
Male Hookup Patterns in Public Spaces
51:01
Challenges of Maintaining Sex Life in Open Relationships
51:32
Scheduling and Emotional Work in Polyamory
52:05
Maturity and Vulnerability in Long-Term Relationships
52:36
Deep Connection and Novelty in Marriage
54:42
Pornography Regulation and Youth Exposure
55:13
Impact of Unregulated Online Porn on Children
56:45
Erectile Dysfunction Linked to Porn Use
57:17
Online Communities Addressing Porn Addiction
57:47
Youth Exposure and Parental Control Issues
58:19
Industry Influence on Research and Prevention
58:51
Personal Experiences with Sexual Expectations
59:21
Evolution of Pornographic Themes and Consent
59:52
Navigating Sexual Communication in Relationships
1:00:23
Sex Education Gaps and Misconceptions
1:01:25
Historical Movements on Sexual Abstinence
1:01:57
Solo Sex Culture and Technological Impact
1:02:28
Attachment Theory and Sexual Behavior Trends
1:02:59
Societal Isolation, AI, and Future Sexuality
1:04:03
BDSM Consent and Visual Arousal
1:04:35
Submissive Script Writing in BDSM
1:05:05
Dominant Control and Script Trust
1:05:37
Sexual Compulsivity Self-Reflection
1:06:38
Defining Sexual Compulsion vs Normality
1:07:09
Red Flags and Relationship Impact
1:08:12
Facebook Photo Removal Insight
1:09:13
Embarrassment vs Humiliation in Sexual Disclosure
1:09:45
Vulnerability and Partner Perception
1:10:16
Honesty About Sexual Preferences
1:11:21
Anecdotal Data on Male Desire
1:11:53
Reversal of Intimacy and Sexual Desire
1:12:24
Novelty, Testosterone, and Hypersexual Culture
1:12:55
Sexual Drive Through Life Stages
1:13:28
Maturity and Sexual Identity in Later Years
1:13:59
Changing Desires and Relationship Dynamics
1:15:02
Sex Addiction as Affect Dysregulation
1:15:34
Genetic and Epigenetic Factors in Sex Addiction
1:16:04
Integrating Biochemistry with Clinical Observations
1:17:09
Doctor Riddle Introduction
1:17:40
Ethical Dilemma of Family Examination
1:18:12
Father‑Son Ferrari Accident Scenario
1:18:44
Surgeon’s Conflict and Resolution
1:19:15
Riddle Explanation and Cultural Context
1:19:46
Surgeon Gender Statistics in the 1980s
1:20:17
Personal Reaction to Historical Gender Bias
1:21:21
Reflection on Early Childhood Perceptions of Doctors
1:22:00
Headphone Metaphor and Identity Play
1:22:54
Speculation on Future Career Paths (Engineer, Karate Instructor)
1:23:24
Academic and Structural Engineering Aspirations
1:23:55
Discussion of Building Failures and Soil Sampling
1:24:26
Floating Airport Concept in Japan
1:25:34
Clarification and Misidentification of Airports
1:26:04
Greek Stereotypes and Cultural Observations
1:27:39
Dating Culture, Millennials, and Generational Dating Norms
1:28:40
Critique of Sex Tip Articles
1:29:11
Discussion on Male Sexual Knowledge
1:30:13
Creative Dating Scenarios
1:31:17
Bookstore Date Concept
1:31:47
SSRIs and Serotonin Reuptake Explained
1:33:21
Cocaine as a Dopamine Uptake Inhibitor
1:33:52
Stripper Earnings and Geographic Distribution
1:34:23
Cultural Attitudes Toward Strip Clubs in Major Cities
1:37:30
Observations of Party Conduct
1:38:00
Discussion of Physical Movements and Reactions
1:39:06
Hypothetical Interaction with Strangers
1:40:10
Personal Experience with a Friend
1:41:46
Statistical Overview of the Sex Industry
1:42:50
Personal Encounters with Strippers
1:43:52
Discussion of Dolphin Sexual Behavior
1:44:22
Ethical Considerations in Animal Interaction
1:45:57
Human Erection as Consent Indicator
1:46:29
Verbal Agreement vs Physical Actions
1:47:01
Canine Psychology and Moral Consequences
1:47:31
Dolphin-Human Interaction Ethics
1:48:03
Female Dolphins and Human Humping
1:48:34
Women with Dolphin Fantasies
1:49:04
Animal Attraction Pathology Discussion
1:49:35
Dolphin Tattoos and Fantasies
1:50:06
Code Word for Sensitive Topics
1:50:39
Parenting and Dominant Theory
1:51:10
Horse Sexuality Discussions
1:52:01
Other Animals Fantasies
1:53:13
Purity Ring and Sexual Abstinence
1:54:15
Mixed Messages on Sexual Boundaries
1:54:46
Wedding Crashers Joke and Audience Reaction
1:55:17
Discussion of Radio Lab and This American Life Episodes
1:55:49
Personal Remarks, Birthday Wishes, and Closing Music
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