About this episodeDeja Kelly discusses her journey from a coach's daughter to a collegiate star and aspiring WNBA player, emphas…AI summary
Deja Kelly discusses her journey from a coach's daughter to a collegiate star and aspiring WNBA player, emphasizing the importance of strategic brand building, mental toughness, and maintaining authenticity in the NIL era. She highlights how her mother's coaching instilled discipline and high basketball IQ, while her decision to choose programs where she could be a 'program changer' rather than just a contributor shaped her career narrative. Kelly also shares insights on balancing dual careers in athletics and broadcasting, advocating for self-care and prayer as essential tools for managing pressure.
Key takeaways 5
Strategic Brand Building: Kelly began building her personal brand and networking skills in high school, which proved crucial when NIL (Name, Image, Likeness) rules changed, allowing her to secure deals with major brands like Uber and Fenty Beauty.
Program Changer Mindset: When choosing colleges (UNC and Oregon), Kelly prioritized opportunities where she could add value and build a program into a national contender over joining established winning teams where she might be 'just another player.'
Mental Toughness through Coaching: Growing up with a mother who was both her coach and assistant principal taught Kelly to navigate false narratives of special treatment, develop high basketball IQ by observing film, and push through physical and mental fatigue.
Dual Career Management: Kelly successfully juggled playing professional basketball and broadcasting duties (such as ESPN's WNBA Countdown), demonstrating that female athletes can excel in multiple domains by treating each as part of a cohesive professional identity.
Self-Care as Performance: Kelly identifies self-care, including prayer and designated off-days without work calls, as critical for maintaining peak performance and mental health in high-pressure environments.
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“I want to be a program changer. I want to be how can I add value to this program? How can I build it up into a national contender?”
▶ 6:19Kelly explains her rationale for choosing UNC and Oregon over established powerhouse programs, focusing on impact rather than immediate success.
“Women are the best brand advocates... our enthusiasm and also authenticity allows them to want to stay whereas I feel like other people can take it for granted.”
▶ 11:01Kelly reflects on why female athletes often succeed in NIL partnerships, citing genuine enthusiasm and relationship-building over transactional attitudes.
“Keep the main thing the main thing. I know my goals. I know what I'm working towards... don't worry about any outside noise.”
▶ 24:34Kelly shares her personal mantra for staying focused on her primary objectives (basketball) amidst distractions.
“It's all a cycle. It's all one big circle. I've built so many relationships through social media through basketball then in the broadcasting space then through NIL.”
▶ 10:08Kelly describes how her various career paths are interconnected rather than separate entities.
Chapters & Sections (59)▼
0:00Early Life Experiences Shaping a Young Athletechapter3
0:00Introduction to the Sports Influential Women Series
0:46Discovering the Game of Hooping at a Young Age
1:25Early Life Influences on Sports Participation
2:03Navigating Childhood Goals and Family Expectationschapter4
2:03Setting and Achieving Early Life Goals
2:47Challenges of Being a Coach's Kid
3:21Overcoming Challenges in Early Athletic Development
3:46Parental Influence on Athletic Development
4:43Navigating Collegiate Recruiting and Career Choiceschapter3
4:43Early Influences and Athletic Aspirations
5:18Navigating College Recruitment and Decision Making
5:47Creating One's Own Path in Sports
6:08Choosing Colleges for Personal Growth and Opportunitychapter2
6:08Choosing Colleges for Athletic Program Revitalization
6:55Setting Personal Goals and Priorities in Life
7:35Building a Personal Brand in NIL Erachapter2
7:35Building a Personal Brand from High School
8:08Importance of Personal Branding in Networking
9:00Balancing Personal Brand and Athletic Careerchapter2
9:00Overcoming Adversity in Athletic Careers
9:41Importance of Personal Branding in Business
10:21Authenticity in Social Media Brand Advocacychapter2
10:21Authenticity in Social Media Content Creation
11:10Building Strong Brand Relationships through Authenticity
11:37Balancing Professional Sports and Media Appearanceschapter4
11:37Balancing Professional Sports and Media Obligations
12:20Celebrity's Life After a Viral Moment
12:45Pre-Game Day Preparation and Logistics
13:11Going Viral After a Sports Game
13:57Female Athletes' Ability to Juggle Multiple Responsibilitieschapter5
13:57Female Athletes' Multitasking Abilities and Strength
14:45Reflecting on a Memorable Experience Together
15:15Observing a Note-Taking Process in Basketball
15:45Appreciation for Mentorship and Teamwork
16:13Overcoming Initial Nerves and Self-Doubt
16:38Prioritizing Self-Care in High-Pressure Careerschapter3
16:38Prioritizing Self-Care in Pursuing Dreams
17:29Importance of Self-Care in High-Pressure Situations
18:01Finding Solace in Faith and Self-Care
18:45Role Models and Influences in Personal Developmentchapter3
18:45Importance of Role Models in Personal Development
19:12Growing Up Inspired by Women's Basketball
19:35Confidence and Authenticity in Personal Growth
20:06Preparing for the WNBA Draft Experiencechapter2
20:06Preparing for the WNBA Draft Experience
20:59Excitement and Uncertainty of the Draft Process
21:29Celebrating College Basketball and Personal Successchapter3
21:29Career Advice and Team Support
22:05Shea Moisture Body Wash Collection Showcase
22:37Natural Skincare Product Options and Preferences
23:06Finding Flow and Staying in the Zonechapter3
23:06Feeling in the Zone and Optimal Performance
23:50Adjusting to New Environments and Personal Growth
24:13Importance of Personal Mantras and Affirmations
24:49Women in Sports and Business Empowermentchapter3
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