About this episodeJenifer Lewis discusses her memoir 'Walking in My Joy,' detailing her journey through bipolar disorder, a prof…AI summary
Jenifer Lewis discusses her memoir 'Walking in My Joy,' detailing her journey through bipolar disorder, a professional romance scam, and her transition from Hollywood stardom to purposeful activism. She emphasizes the importance of self-care, financial literacy, and using one's platform to fight social injustice, particularly regarding police brutality and voting rights.
Key takeaways 5
Lewis overcame 35 years of depression by treating bipolar disorder through therapy, medication, and journaling, allowing her to 'walk in joy' rather than living in her inner child's trauma.
She was targeted by a professional romance scammer who used his children as leverage; she invested $50,000 but successfully hired a private investigator for five years, leading to the scammer's eight-year prison sentence.
Lewis advocates for athletes to take a knee during national anthems to protest police brutality, stating, 'Our ancestors took two knees on the cotton field; we have a right to take one.'
She believes artists have a duty to reflect societal times and must prioritize self-care ('get your house in order') before helping others, noting that 'other people's happiness ain't your business.'
Lewis credits her success to 'doing the homework' and leading with love, asserting that talent will outlast trends if nurtured properly.
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“I'm the queen of my life.”
▶ 12:16Lewis explains why she declined an offer for her own spinoff show 'Oldish' on Black-ish, prioritizing her personal well-being over Hollywood status.
“You must tell somebody. Don't hold no secrets. We're as sick as our secrets.”
▶ 22:36Advice given after sharing her experience with a romance scam and childhood trauma, emphasizing the importance of speaking out.
“Our ancestors took two knees on the cotton field; we have a right to take one.”
▶ 25:46Lewis justifies her support for Colin Kaepernick and athlete protests against police brutality.
“If you don't know who you are, your audience will know. They will see it when that camera is right in front of you.”
▶ 1:13:21Advice on acting authenticity, contrasting theater training with the need for genuine truth on camera.
“You vote because they lynched us. You vote because they raped us.”
▶ 1:17:19Lewis's passionate argument for why voting is a critical act of survival and resistance against historical and ongoing oppression.
Chapters & Sections (57)▼
0:00Celebrity Friendship and Personal Achievementschapter3
0:00Revisiting a Past Friendship and Shared Experience
2:03Celebrating Friendship and Personal Achievements
3:55Overcoming Long-Term Depression and Finding Joy
5:12Dedicating Book to Tragic Losses and Social Justicechapter3
5:12Dedicating Book to Tragic Losses and Social Justice
8:31Collaboration on Writing a Book
9:59Overcoming Fear to Listen to Inner Voice
13:19Career Reflections and New Projectschapter3
13:19Challenges of Working in Sitcom Television
15:00Working with Children in the Entertainment Industry
16:35Overcoming Stigma and Romance Scam Experiences
18:54Red Flags in Manipulative Relationshipschapter3
18:54Recognizing Sociopathic Behavior in Personal Relationships
20:55Investing in a Toxic Relationship
22:36Embracing Authenticity and Overcoming Life Challenges
25:21Social Justice and Police Brutality Awarenesschapter4
25:21Police Brutality and Activism in Sports
27:52Overcoming Mental Health Struggles and Finding Success
29:17Embracing Joy and Living Life on Purpose
31:01Personal Growth and Self-Reflection Through Life Experience
32:48Overcoming Mental Health Struggles and Finding Self-Carechapter2
32:48Overcoming Mental Health Struggles and Finding Self-Care
35:24Raising Children in a Troubled Society
37:10Raising Awareness for Social Justice and Inclusionchapter3
37:10Protecting and Empowering Multiracial Children
38:29Raising a Young Drag Queen as Family
40:18Mentorship and Overcoming Adversity in the Entertainment Industry
42:09Falling in Love with a Romantic Partnerchapter2
42:09Falling in Love with a Romantic Gesture
44:18Author's Personal Anecdote and Book Insights
46:26Career Challenges and Job Loss During Pandemicchapter3
46:26Working in Hollywood and Personal Experiences
48:23Appreciation for Supportive Relationships in the Industry
50:00Overcoming Misconceptions about Female Artists in Industry
51:18Childhood Influences and Early Musical Experienceschapter3
51:18Impact of Black Music on Self-Discovery and Identity
53:12The Power of Triple Threat Performers
54:25The Power of Leading with Love and Positivity
55:38Breaking Free from Mental Habits and Patternschapter3
55:38Breaking Free from Habitual Patterns of Thought
58:03Penny Marshall's Appreciation for Black Culture
59:28Relationship Advice and Financial Independence
1:00:43Celebrity Friendships and Support in the Entertainment Industrychapter3
1:00:43Celebrity Friendships and Mentorship in Hollywood
1:02:25The Power of Talent and Self-Expression
1:03:56Honoring the Legacy of Social Justice Icons
1:05:43Business Advice and Personal Financial Managementchapter3
1:05:43Importance of Financial Literacy and Organization
1:07:41Managing Emotions and Productivity
1:09:18Overcoming Adversity and Embracing Humility
1:11:53Acting Techniques and Authenticity in Performancechapter5
1:11:53Acting Techniques for Authentic Character Portrayal
1:14:29Building a Youth Center in a Segregated Community